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Old 06-10-2019, 06:43 PM
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I have been with bf from 4 year. He is non-smoker. My smoking never mad him, he sometimes bought me cigarettes and allow me to smoking in her car. Recently he wants me to teach him how to smoke. I are trying to discourage it because it is an important decision which change whole life.
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Old 06-10-2019, 06:47 PM
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I assume he's an adult. You don't have to encourage him, but discouraging him might be taken as if you're not taking him seriously. You are right that it is an important decision, but it is his decision, just as it was yours. Has he said why he wants you to teach him to smoke? Actually, it's not "rocket science." A lot of us figure it out on our own. There's nothing stopping him from trying it himself without your involvement.

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Old 06-10-2019, 06:50 PM
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I hope you realize that your words of discouragement to him while continuing to smoke yourself are not going to be very effective. He obviously admires you and wants to join you in your habit. My advice is to talk it out. Does he really want to smoke and would you be willing to quit?
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I don't want quit. I smoke about 30 cigs and he is not complaining even on kissing with me. I don't know what I should do.
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I don't want quit. I smoke about 30 cigs and he is not complaining even on kissing with me. InI don't know what I should do.
He obviously OK with your smoking habit and he has accepted you for what you are. I am not in favor of pushing smoking on someone who isnít interested in taking up smoking. Your boyfriend is. You need to talk about it with him. Since he really wants to and if he understands the risks, then by all means teach him. You might have some fun corrupting him. I have helped a couple of people start. However, in both instances this was something they really wanted to do. You need to explain to him that once he starts dabbling with cigarettes, he most likely will acquire a lite long habit. If heís OK with this, he should go for it and enjoy.
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Old 06-10-2019, 08:55 PM
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I agree with everyone that since he wants to try, then help him out. Once he tries it, he can then make the decision to continue or not.
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Laraa, your boyfriend has already made the decision in his mind. He wants to start smoking so it will be fun for the both of you if you are the one to turn him into a smoker. He will start smoking regardless.
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Old 06-11-2019, 08:47 AM
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Today he take few puffs from my cigarette and one time even inhaled.
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Laraa, why not buy your boyfriend a pack of cigarettes and a lighter and set aside a time for a smoking tutorial. Iím betting that he would be thrilled.
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He smoked first cigarette it was funny when he coughing but tried inhale every drag and was impressed I be able to smoke 30 per day
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