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Old 12-03-2017, 03:09 PM
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Hi Everyone,

Has anyone gotten their non-smoking wife or GF started smoking? My wife does not smoke and never has as far as I know. I often wish she would start smoking at least once in a while to share the habit with. I realize that could be a slippery slope as it she did try it and liked it she might not be able to control it like I do. That being said I would love seeing her smoking a 120. I would be happy even if she would start vaping like I have. I would ask her to try it, but I know it probably would not go well and end up being a fight.

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Old 12-05-2017, 01:23 AM
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I would not encourage a non-smoker to start. Yes you risk starting a huge fight.

And if she does start smoking, you've just introduced her to a unhealthy habit
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I agree with Wayne. If someone wants to start smoking it should be their own decision. Not because someone else thinks it’s a good idea or it looks cool.
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Smoking is a personal choice and asking your wife to pick up the habit just to please you is not okay.
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ditto for all the comments above. Don't start if you don't have too. You have to ask what if your wife dies of a smoking related illness how would you feel?
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If smoking was so important to you then you should have married a smoker in the first place. It is unethical for you to get her to smoke for your personal pleasure.
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My husband and I were both smokers when we met. Given how much I smoked I canít imagine he would have married me if he werenít a smoker too. But I wouldnít recommend trying to get somebody to start.
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What happens when the novelty of this wears off?Trying to encourage a non smoking spouse to smoke is a lousy idea.
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What happens when the novelty of this wears off?Trying to encourage a non smoking spouse to smoke is a lousy idea.
My husband and I both quit a few years back. I stayed quit for 2 years before I started again. After I started again he was still quit and I did everything I could to not tempt him - only smoked outside the house (and froze my butt off!) and didnít smoke when we were in the car together. He started back up again about 6 months after I did even with me trying to help him stay quit.
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My husband and I were both smokers when we met. Given how much I smoked I canít imagine he would have married me if he werenít a smoker too. But I wouldnít recommend trying to get somebody to start.
Oh there are definitely some non-smoking guys out there who wouldn't mind your heavy smoking or would even like it.
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