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Old 07-24-2020, 10:02 AM
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I got together with an old friend several months ago. It was the first time I had seen or talked to her in about 10 years. She moved back to town 6 months ago. She is a smoker now. She said she started smoking during a rough time at work. We started dating a couple of months ago. We have talked about trying living together. She smokes in her house and in the car. I am not a smoker. I am torn about what to do with her smoking. Should I try to talk her into stopping, tell her not to smoke in the house and car, or just embrace it. I am afraid if I try to get her to stop that it will have a negative impact on our relationship. If I try to embrace it how do I get used to the smoke?
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Old 07-24-2020, 10:14 AM
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.as the saying goes love her love her habit.
its an addiction its something she NEEDS to do
im a non smoker whos close to many smoking women the smell doesnt bother me because i know its part of them it makes them happy and content support her
one day she may wanna quit support her too
she may the perfect woman for yoiu with exception of her habit but you'll never know unless you explore the relationship
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Old 07-24-2020, 10:56 AM
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Embrace it and love it. Lint they say, if you canít beat em join em
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Whatever you do, do not ask her to quit.
You knew she smoked when your friendship turned into a relationship smoking is part of who she is, so you should embrace it. In another post somebody said, if you canít beat them, join them. It is a radical way to get used to her smoking but let me tell you if you take the step you wonít regret it. Smoking together will add to your relationship.
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Old 07-24-2020, 11:27 AM
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It is very easy....you dated her as a smoker now you have to fully accept her as a smoker with no compromises in my opinion.
I am sure if you ever bring up this topic or any compromise....at the end....you will be alone again.

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I agree with all the above comments so far but wonder if there could be a compromise ? Is there a room in the house that could be set aside for smoking? Catriona.

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It looks like it is a good thing that I asked before talking to her about it. I have been attracted to her for a long time and do not want to mess up the relationship. I grew up in a non-smoking house and have not been around many smokers, so if I embrace it it is not going to be easy. I do love her. Maybe I should try to embrace it. Will it be ok for me to be breathing in her smoke all the time? How long does it take to get used to being around a smoker?

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Old 07-24-2020, 04:55 PM
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If you really love her you will get used to it very soon.
And please, in order to safe your relationship.....NEVER any bad comments about her smoking, bvut ALWAYS full support and now compromises, ok?

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Originally Posted by Vanessa1991 View Post
If you really love her you will get used to it very soon.
And please, in order to safe your relationship.....NEVER any bad comments about her smoking, bvut ALWAYS full support and now compromises, ok?

My opinion only....
I agree with Vanessa. No negative comments and accept her for who she is.

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Originally Posted by Vanessa1991 View Post
If you really love her you will get used to it very soon.
And please, in order to safe your relationship.....NEVER any bad comments about her smoking, bvut ALWAYS full support and now compromises, ok?

My opinion only....
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